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Why You’re Struggling To Lose Weight After 40 and How to Fix It

How to Lose Weight After 40
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After navigating my own symptoms and getting nowhere with traditional care, I decided to become the kind of practitioner I needed. Today, I help women like you get answers, feel heard, and finally have a plan that makes sense — and works.

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“You can’t lose weight if your life is a dumpster fire.” – Leslie Duffy

If you’ve been hitting the gym, counting the calories, and still can’t budge the numbers on the scale, here’s the truth: it’s probably not what you’re eating. In midlife, fluctuating estrogen levels make our bodies more sensitive to stress, and we can’t handle the stress response as well as we used to. Your overscheduled life, that coworker you can’t stand, or even the clothes that don’t fit right, can spike your blood sugar just like a candy bar would. The result? Higher cortisol, stubborn belly fat, crappy sleep, and sluggish digestion.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how stress messes with your hormones in midlife and creates weight loss resistance, and why pushing yourself harder isn’t the answer. I’m also sharing my four-step CALM method to get out of fight-or-flight, lower cortisol, and put your body back in fat-burning, hormone-balancing mode. It’s time to start working with your body instead of against it.

If you’ve been doing everything right and still feel stuck, this episode will help you to connect the dots and finally break free.

Your Takeaways

  • Why stress is basically a Snickers bar — minus the fun
  • The three types of stress and how chronic stress affects your weight
  • How hormones like cortisol drive stress-related weight gain
  • The CALM Method for regulating your body, not just your habits
  • Why letting go, slowing down, and shifting your mindset can actually help you lose weight.

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Mentioned in this episode

Huberman Lab | Control Stress for Healthy Eating, Metabolism & Aging with Dr. Elissa Epel

Anti-inflammatory properties of the vagus nerve: potential therapeutic implications of vagus nerve stimulation

Can Meditation Slow Rate of Cellular Aging? Cognitive Stress, Mindfulness, and Telomeres

The Chain Mediating Effect of Negative Perfectionism on Procrastination: An Ego Depletion Perspective

Estrogen Improves Insulin Sensitivity and Suppresses Gluconeogenesis via the Transcription Factor Foxo1

Impact of the Baltimore Experience Corps Trial on cortical and hippocampal volumes

Stress, cortisol, and obesity: a role for cortisol responsiveness in identifying individuals prone to obesity

Stress May Cause Excess Abdominal Fat In Otherwise Slender Women, Study Conducted At Yale Shows

The geroscience agenda: Toxic stress, hormetic stress, and the rate of aging

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Send me a message and follow me on Instagram @LeslieDuffyCoaching

Email me at leslie@thehormoneshiftshow.com

Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube @TheHormoneShiftShow

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